Dating Shanghai Girls – The Battle of the Sexes

Dating Shanghai Girls – Read what Dr. Love has to say about Dating Shanghai Girls!

And gain from his immense wisdom!

Having the jitters on your first Chinese date?

Don’t worry too much. Always remember to enjoy your dates, especially for losers who don’t have many dates to start with.

Shoot me!

Now, let’s get on with some Dating Girls Tips for my fellow disciples online - As Sun Tze (he’s my Master Strategist in Love and War) once said:

"To win a battle, one must be like Water.He who is flexible and adapts well to changing situations is a Victor!"

Before you go on your first date with any girls (Chinese or otherwise), you need to do a few things right. If you can just do them right, there shouldn’t be any problems on your first date.

What are the Tips? Think Water!

Dating Shanghai Girls Tips 1 - Ask yourself what kind of man your date (or victim) wants to be with on her first date.

Dating Shanghai Girls Tips 2 - Simply, be that Man that she wants!

Let me give some examples to illustrate my point.

For example, just say that this Chinese date of yours likes a man that is educated and is relatively wealthy. What should you do?

Simply, on your date night, wear a nice business suit and make sure your hair is decent and slick. She will be proud to walk with a "successful man" like you. Anyway, it doesn’t cost much to have a nice suit tailor-made in Shanghai.

For most Chinese girls, it will also be best to take her out to a Western restaurant for a candle-light dinner. I don’t know why but it seems to work.

I guess most Chinese girls tend to watch Hollywood movies, where candle-light dinner is THE thing for a romantic night out. This is especially so when you are a Caucasian.

What if your date is a fun-loving, sexy and love Rock Music (reminds me of my wife)? Well, try to wear something cool and bright. These girls like you to be one-of-a-kind. Cool sells!

For my first real date with my then-girlfriend-now-wife, I wore a pair of Levi's jeans, a nice leather jacket over a T-shirt with the rock band, Led Zeppelin on it.

It did the trick!

At the end of our date, I took off my T-shirt in front of her and pass it to her as a present. She is a real fan of Led Zeppelin! And I wanted to show her my muscular pecs and abs too.

She was so shy but I knew she thought it was so COOL! Who wouldn’t?

Note: This is not for every guy out there unless you had my previously well-toned body. I would not do it now, especially with my enlarging love handles.

Another important thing – Chinese girls are very observant and would notice small things. So, please snip your nostril hairs and shave before a date. Most Chinese girls like clean-shaven men compared to Indian girls who love their men with moustaches. I guess it’s a cultural thing.

Chinese girls like men who look after themselves. If you look like a poor vagrant on the first date, it will probably be your last too.

In China, "face" value is very important. If you can enhance your date’s status by being with you, you are seen as a good catch.

Some general “Dating Shanghai Girls Tips” for First-Timers

- Don't put too much cologne unless you smell like a skunk!

- Always take a shower before going on a date.

- Don't have bad breath. Buy some chewing gum and put them in your pocket. You'll never know when you need them. Especially when kissing on your first date.

WARNING: Do not kiss on your first date with a Chinese girl!

Well, that’s all for today!

My wife is calling me for a massage.

Best Wishes & Ciao from Dr. Love!

For more on Dating in Shanghai

Shanghai Girls – What Are They Made Of?

How to Make Friends in Shanghai without Scaring Them Away!

Online Dating Tips in Shanghai